How to Tell Your Stylist You Want a Change
Quick answer
Tell your stylist when you book or as soon as you sit down, then show two or three photos and say what you'd like to change. You don't need salon terms, because a photo and a plain description of what bothers you work better.
By Karen Shardlow, Master Artist, Cut and Color Specialist Updated · 3 min read
Many people sit down meaning to ask for something different, then hear themselves say "the usual." It's easy to do, especially with someone you've seen for years. A few plain sentences can make it much easier.
When should you bring it up?
Early. If the change is big, mention it when you book, because a new cut or color may need more time than your regular service. If you decide later, say it before your hair is washed. Once the appointment is under way, there's less room to rethink the plan.
You don't need a speech. "I'd like to do something different today" is enough. A good stylist will take it from there with questions.
What should you say if you can't describe it?
Don't worry about the right names. Trend names don't always mean the same thing in every salon, as the guide to wolf cuts, shags and butterfly cuts explains. Describe the problem, and let the stylist suggest the technique.
| What you're feeling | What you can say |
|---|---|
| Bored with the same shape | "I want this to look different, but I don't want to lose much length" |
| Hair feels flat | "It's flat at the roots by lunchtime" |
| Cut feels too heavy | "It feels heavy at the ends and won't move" |
| Styling takes too long | "I'd like to spend five minutes on this, not twenty" |
| Color feels dull | "I'd like something brighter, but I don't want regrowth every month" |
| Ready for a big change | "I'm open to going short. What would suit my hair?" |
What should you bring?
- Two or three photos of hair you like, and one you don't
- A note on what you like in each photo, such as the fringe or the length
- A rough history of what's on your hair, including box color
- An honest idea of how long you spend on your hair
The photo you dislike can be the most useful one. It shows your stylist where your limits are.
What should you ask before you commit?
- How will this look on a day I don't style it?
- How often will I need to come back?
- What will this cost?
- Is there a smaller step I could try first?
The last question matters most if you're nervous. Bangs can start long, and a short bob can come before a pixie. If you're going shorter, the comparison of the bixie, the pixie and the bob can help you pick a shape to discuss.
Does a big color change need a separate conversation?
Often, yes. Many salons ask for a consultation before corrective or creative color. Gatzby Salon in Georgetown, for example, requires one before color correction and fashion colors, so don't plan on making that switch on the day. If you want something bold, read about vivid hair color first, and go in knowing how much upkeep you'd accept.
What if you don't like the result?
Say so soon, and be specific. "The sides feel too short" is easier to act on than "I don't like it." When you book, ask how long you have to request a fix, since rules differ from salon to salon.
If you're in Georgetown and thinking about a change, each women's cut with Karen Shardlow begins with a consultation. Bring your photos, and see what a first visit looks like.
Thinking about it? See Karen's prices, read the new client guide, or browse all her services. Karen's women's cuts start at $76 at Breeze Salon + Spa in Georgetown as of November 2026, and the Emily Post Institute suggests a 15% to 20% tip at a hair salon.
Frequently asked questions
Will my stylist be offended if I ask for something new?
Asking for a change is a normal part of the job. Saying it early gives your stylist time to plan.
How do I tell my stylist I don't like my haircut?
Tell them soon, and be specific about what isn't working. A problem is easier to fix while the cut is fresh.
Should I bring pictures to my hair appointment?
Yes. Two or three photos of hair you like, and one you don't, are clearer than most descriptions.
Where can I get help with this in Georgetown, TX?
Karen Shardlow is a hair stylist and Master Artist at Breeze Salon + Spa in Georgetown. Call 512-863-3242 to book with Karen.